Friday, February 18, 2011

61-derful - the 8 Keys for Life

As my 60th year draws to a close, I can honestly say that it has been a year-long celebration.  First, the Philadelphia flower show and Picasso exhibit with my cherished wife; then a great summer vacation at the beach with the family; my son's involvement in debate, model U.N., and student government; exhilerating trips to L.A. and Boston, and a rousing road trip to watch Alabama football and take pride in my daughter's academic ascendancy. 

But in the last two months, we have said farewell to a beloved family friend and two precious family members.  All lived long and meaningful lives, but it was still sad to say good-by.  Growing old does indeed mean giving up the things and people you cherish the most, but it also means finding new ways to commemorate their lives and cherish that existence.

As I approach 61-derful, I can think of no better way to celebrate than to commit to the 8 keys for life that Neil Cohen gave us at his father's memorial service.  His dad, Melvin Cohen, was a righeous man in every sense of the word, and these keys capture the inspiration that was his life.  He lived them each day of his life, and God willing, so will I. 

1.  Love your parents, your brothers, sisters, and friends.

2.  Friendship - Be loyal and caring to your friends.

3.  Smile!  Have a good sense of humor.  Strive to be optimistic.

4.  Work Habits:  Always strive to do your best!

5.  Be Generous:  Share your good fortune in life with those less fortunate.

6.  Be a Reader- The whole world comes to you.

7.  Be truthful:  Always be honest and sincere.

8.  Faith:  Strong Belief in God and Judaism.

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